More than a game, it's a Brotherhood!

“A golf fellowship for men who seek more—on and off the course.”

Guys’ golf  getaways often come with hesitation. Whether you’re juggling a career, family, relationships, or just the daily grind, taking time for yourself can feel like an impossible ask. Par F.O.R.E. Golf is designed for ALL men—whether you’re single, married, a father, or just looking to build meaningful connections. Our retreats offer a space to reset, refocus, and grow, both on and off the course.

About Us

Par F.O.R.E. Golf creates  transformative golf retreats designed for men who love the game and seek something deeper in their life. Through our curated retreats and leagues, we provide opportunities for men to recharge their souls, build lasting fellowship, and grow in their faith. Our mission is to change the perception of the typical “guys’ trip” by challenging men to engage in golfing with a purpose — returning home as better husbands, fathers, sons, and men. We believe that golf mirrors life, and by embracing both with intention, we can strengthen our character, deepen our relationships, and live with greater purpose.

THE HALL PASS DILEMMA

THE HALL PASS DILEMMA:

“Disclaimer (Before Anyone Gets the Wrong Idea):
Now, let’s clear something up before this post takes a turn we never intended. When we say ‘hall pass,’ we’re strictly talking about the delicate, time-honored tradition of convincing your wife to let you escape on a completely innocent guys’ trip. Not the other kind of hall pass (you know, the one that could get you permanently uninvited from your own home). This is about strategic negotiations, well-timed flattery, and the occasional pre-trip chore marathon to secure the ultimate prize: a few days of golf, brotherhood, and absolutely no decorative pillows. Proceed accordingly.”

Let’s be honest—asking your wife for a “hall pass” to golf for 5 days is like walking through a minefield. You casually bring up the idea… and before you can even finish, you get the look.

  • The deep sigh.
  • The skeptical eyebrow raise.
  • The “Sure, go have fun…” (which is never a real “yes”).

You know how this story goes. You leave, have a blast, and come back exhausted, guilty, and stepping into a household that’s been in survival mode. Meanwhile, she’s been holding it down, dealing with school drop-offs, laundry, and the inevitable “Where’s Dad?” questions.

THAT’S why Par F.O.R.E. Golf is different.

WHY PAR F.O.R.E. IS DIFFERENT

TYPICAL GUYS’ TRIP VS. PAR F.O.R.E. GOLF RETREAT

  • Most guys’ golf trips? Too much drinking. Too little sleep. No real depth.
  • You come back worn out instead of recharged.
  • Your wife rolls her eyes because it’s just “another bro trip.”

What if you came back a better husband, father, and man?

Par F.O.R.E. flips the script. This isn’t just about the golf. It’s about deep connections, real conversations, and leaving feeling renewed.

You’ll come home energized, mentally sharper, spiritually stronger, and actually excited to be home.

âś… World-class golf at bucket-list golf courses
âś… Laid-back conversations with like-minded men
âś… An intentional, faith-based approach to fellowship
âś… A retreat designed to refresh your mind, body, and soul
âś… You return home on FIRE, not drained.

The Founder's Story

Meet Jon Hesse: The Visionary Behind Par F.O.R.E. Golf

In hindsight, I now see that God was calling me toward something bigger. That calling came after our annual Refuge fishing trip was abruptly canceled in Spring of 2024. The disappointment was heavy—we had been looking forward to it, and now, it was gone. I asked around to see if I could organize another trip, but it just wasn’t coming together. That’s when the idea hit me: What if the spirit of Refuge could be brought to the golf course? That single thought sparked what would eventually become Par F.O.R.E. Golf.

The first night I dreamt about Par F.O.R.E. Golf, I was overall, in a pretty great place in life. However, it wasn’t always that way. In August of 2022, before my first Refuge trip, the COVID aftermath had left me (like many men) feeling disconnected and lonely.  That trip opened my eyes to what I meant to God and what He meant to me. He showed me my purpose, and I realized that my love for golf wasn’t just a passion—it was a tool given by Him to serve a greater purpose in expanding His Kingdom. And what better way than with, GOLF!

Faith was the foundation of Par F.O.R.E. Golf. Without my faith, this would have been just another idea swept away like so many of my past dreams. But God had bigger plans. I spoke to one of the pastors from my 2022 Refuge trip and asked him, If I were to set up a golf trip with the same level of intentionality as Refuge, would you go? Without hesitation, he said, YES! That was the confirmation I needed. I booked Saguaro Point in Scottsdale AZ. and just like that, the inaugural retreat was set.

One of the biggest challenges I faced was trusting that God would bring the right men to the retreat. I didn’t want my own agenda to dictate who should be there—I wanted His plan to unfold. That required faith, especially when we didn’t book the final spot until just three weeks before the retreat date. But God filled the room with exactly who He intended to be there.

The biggest “Aha!” moment came when I saw a longtime friend give his heart to the Lord during the trip.  It was a deeply personal and intimate experience that reinforced why Par F.O.R.E. Golf exists.

Since that first retreat, we’ve witnessed men step into their roles as husbands, fathers, and leaders in powerful ways. The friendships and bonds formed are truly priceless. Every guy comes with their own “stuff.” My prayer is that if nothing else, they leave knowing that they are loved by their Creator and that a relationship with Him can change their life for the better.

Personally, leading Par F.O.R.E. Golf has transformed me. I’ve grown in my faith, and I’ve also learned where I need to be cautious. More than anything, I just want to live in alignment with God’s will.

The vision for the future is global. I want to see Par F.O.R.E. Golf retreats expand to destinations worldwide, with leaders across the country guiding their own groups of men through this journey. But ultimately, I’m just following where God leads.

If you’re on the fence about joining a retreat, I’ll just say this: Give it a shot! (Pun intended.) If nothing else, you’ll play incredible golf, eat amazing food, get some much-needed rest, and make a few new friends. What’s wrong with that?

Welcome to Par F.O.R.E. Golf—where every round is an opportunity to grow through the game of golf.

– Jon Hesse, Founder

Our Mission

At Par F.O.R.E. Golf, our passion for golf merges with a journey of personal and spiritual growth. We specialize in creating transformative golf experiences for men who cherish the game and seek personal development, deep connections, and spiritual rejuvenation. Our retreats, like the flagship Scottsdale Retreat, offer four rounds of golf on prestigious courses, quality accommodations, and delicious meals, all fostering fellowship and renewal. Join our community to enhance both your spiritual journey and your golf skills, helping you excel as a husband, father, son, and man—one round at a time.

Our Vision

“With God’s wisdom and guidance, we want to empower men of leadership to reach their fullest potential through the spirit of golf, fostering a community of fellowship, faith, and personal growth. We aspire to teach and equip men worldwide to lead their own transformative golf trips, leveraging our resources and connections, where every swing brings us closer to our Eternity in Heaven.”

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